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	<title>Comments on: Say &#8216;Yes&#8217; to &#8216;No&#8217;</title>
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		<title>By: Lokesh Ranjan</title>
		<link>http://www.amitsrivastava.net/2007-12-16-say-yes-to-no/comment-page-1/#comment-61</link>
		<dc:creator>Lokesh Ranjan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 06:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Saying yes or no is a very complicated concept and it depends on individual personality and situation.  
What I believe is being truthful always works.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Saying yes or no is a very complicated concept and it depends on individual personality and situation.<br />
What I believe is being truthful always works.</p>
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		<title>By: Amit</title>
		<link>http://www.amitsrivastava.net/2007-12-16-say-yes-to-no/comment-page-1/#comment-44</link>
		<dc:creator>Amit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jan 2008 18:09:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Anand: Thanks for the comment. I agree that chosing the right game is important. Though not impossible it&#039;s tough to win a game you are not good at. So aren&#039;t we saying the same thing? Saying &#039;Yes&#039; to the right game and &#039;No&#039; to the wrong ones? :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Anand: Thanks for the comment. I agree that chosing the right game is important. Though not impossible it&#8217;s tough to win a game you are not good at. So aren&#8217;t we saying the same thing? Saying &#8216;Yes&#8217; to the right game and &#8216;No&#8217; to the wrong ones? <img src='http://www.amitsrivastava.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Anand</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anand</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jan 2008 04:15:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I guess you are not in the right place. More than saying yes or no, it&#039;s important to choose the playing field. You can&#039;t win in a game you don&#039;t know how to play or which you are not good at. You might analyse the situation threadbare, but at the end of the day all you have done is identified symptoms and not the real problem.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I guess you are not in the right place. More than saying yes or no, it&#8217;s important to choose the playing field. You can&#8217;t win in a game you don&#8217;t know how to play or which you are not good at. You might analyse the situation threadbare, but at the end of the day all you have done is identified symptoms and not the real problem.</p>
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		<title>By: Amit</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Dec 2007 12:25:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Shweta : Thanks

@Abhinav: That&#039;s another good way to put it. We basically say the &#039;Wrong Yes&#039; to please someone :-)

@Deepesh: Your approach is ideal in quite a few situations. &#039;To decide not to decide&#039; is also a decision. So I&#039;ve got the title for another post  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Shweta : Thanks</p>
<p>@Abhinav: That&#8217;s another good way to put it. We basically say the &#8216;Wrong Yes&#8217; to please someone <img src='http://www.amitsrivastava.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Deepesh: Your approach is ideal in quite a few situations. &#8216;To decide not to decide&#8217; is also a decision. So I&#8217;ve got the title for another post  <img src='http://www.amitsrivastava.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Deepesh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deepesh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2007 07:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think this happens to everyone. One way I try to save myself from the shit following a wrong Yes is procrastination :-). If you can&#039;t say No, don&#039;t say Yes either and it has worked for me quite well. Sounds like a cheap diplomatic trick, but anything that saves your ass (and doesn&#039;t kick anyone else&#039;s) is worth it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think this happens to everyone. One way I try to save myself from the shit following a wrong Yes is procrastination <img src='http://www.amitsrivastava.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> . If you can&#8217;t say No, don&#8217;t say Yes either and it has worked for me quite well. Sounds like a cheap diplomatic trick, but anything that saves your ass (and doesn&#8217;t kick anyone else&#8217;s) is worth it.</p>
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		<title>By: Abhinav</title>
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		<dc:creator>Abhinav</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2007 06:52:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seems to me that this article echoes the same meaning as the saying, &quot;Pleasing everyone is a sure way to failure&quot;. Definitely something you should follow throughout.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seems to me that this article echoes the same meaning as the saying, &#8220;Pleasing everyone is a sure way to failure&#8221;. Definitely something you should follow throughout.</p>
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		<title>By: Shweta</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shweta</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2007 13:59:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey! your thought is very much impressive..therefore we should be confident about our sayings specially for &#039;Yes Or NO&#039;  its all upto us ..thats why I Follow these words &quot;What I Say I Do&quot; for myself.

Really your thought is very inspiring.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey! your thought is very much impressive..therefore we should be confident about our sayings specially for &#8216;Yes Or NO&#8217;  its all upto us ..thats why I Follow these words &#8220;What I Say I Do&#8221; for myself.</p>
<p>Really your thought is very inspiring.</p>
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